A CEREMONIOUS
NORTHWEST FRAT BALL
GP Nick
Inducted for Second Term; Nong Fred is Guest Speaker
by Willie "Tatang" Vergara
[Photography by
Cosme Santiago, Ben Manzano and Willie Vergara]
This was one
occasion I had to attend, no matter what. Brod Ronnie
Dimaano called me in early 2015, inviting me to attend
his induction as Grand Princep. And I never forgot
Ronnie when in 2000, having newly arrived in California,
he immediately presented himself for service. I was GP
in UP-North, and we were then on our 3rd year of
rebuilding the Chapter.
Brod Ronnie and family in Folsom, California in 2001
What more? My
August 2003 visit to the then new Northwest Chapter
(founded in 2001, after the UP Beta Sigma International
Grand Reunion in San Francisco) expanded my perspective
that a mixed-group of Beta Sigmans could work together
not just for “good time” and socializing, but for
projects higher than themselves. That was just a chance,
unplanned visit. The sudden passing of Founding
President Jesus R. Jayme got me immediately packing to
attend his funeral in Vancouver. But then I could not
afford the airfare to Vancouver and the fare to Seattle
was less than half that price.
Brod Cosme Santiago met me at the airport at midnight,
and provided me lodging at his home. Cosme hosted a
gathering the next day, where I was basically a listener
and an observer. Many came that night led by Brod Dr. Ed
Cuevas MD (NW's first GP), which was an opportunity for
me to know some members. They were (and still are) a
bunch of rather impressive professionals in this part of
the US. (Note: Brod Vic Battad recently said on FaceBook
that this Chapter now has six (6) MDs.) The quality of
their topics were quite impressive, and there I thought
that this group really started on the right path – a
Chapter that can think beyond themselves, a mentality
that began with their Charter. I also learned here that
this was a Chapter that understood the essence of
networking, and the synergy that comes as a result.
At
Vancouver with Mom Leonor Jayme and Family, plus Vic
Battad and Nards Taggueg
Brod Nards and Sis
Angie Taggueg took me to their home that night. At that
time, Nards was waiting to be reinstated at Boeing Air,
so he had the time to accompany me to condole with our
Founding President Jesus R. Jayme’s family. That trip to
Vancouver and back was a great time for bonding between
these two Ilocanos who only met in the US. But Brod
Nards was the more fluent, poetic type and he had all
types of Ilocano jokes, including the self-depracating
ones. Geeez! I don’t remember having laughed so heartily
during a two-hour trip.
Fast-track to July 17, 2015.
International Prez Edsel Arceo and I hit the road last
Thursday. With my body aching the night before, Edsel
took on all the driving – from Rocklin to Oregon City,
then the next day, to the Columbia River Gorge, then to
Portland garden and other sites, and to Seattle, our
final destination. (On our way back, I must have been on
the wheel only 2-3 of the total 15 hours.)
Multnomah Falls in Columbia River Gorge National Scenic
Area
People line up at Voodoo Doughnut, a Portland landmark
known for its unusual doughnuts and eclectic decor
For
breakfast, we had coffee and a mouthful
(no
pun intended) of their "cock and balls" doughnut
On our first night (Hawaiian Welcome Night), it was such
a pleasure to meet one of the legends of the frat, Brod
Sluggo Rigor, and personally banter with his pretty wife
Marivic. (I told Marivic that, according to the usually
reliable Betan grapevine, the dashing Slug never laid
his eyes on any other woman since he met her.) … My
first personal meeting with my kababayan Brod Ben
Manzano and his pretty young wife Gryselle likewise
needs to be mentioned. I asked Gryselle, “How were you
able to snag a handsome guy like Brod Ben?” Brod Ben
couldn’t believe he just heard this, but you know what?
I saw complete agreement in Gryselle’s eyes! Hmmmmm.
“All Betans are handsome, right Brods?”
And then we saw
Brods from other places milling around a long table of
delicious Filipino dishes, featuring two differently
prepared lechons, and well-known specialties of
multi-talented Brod Cosme - “dua nga luto ti kalding”
and “dinengdeng. Some notables I saw were: Alberta,
Canada Chapter GP Rod Liggayu, Toronto’s Art De Vera
(who should already be given an award for attending all
fraternity balls in the US for the past two or more
decades), one of International’s BOD Nick Galvez, Brod
Col. Jim Gonzalvo who just moved to Maryland, UP North
Brods Nong Fred, Federation President Johnny Regadio and
Ric Velasco and Florida-bound Alaskan Brod Greg Vergara.
Then we would meet Brod Rene Gallardo, former GP of
Texas the next day.
Amid the evening’s merriment, games, and dancing, GP
Nick showed a slide presentation that exhibited some of
Brod Ronnie Dimaano’s life as a Betan.
On Day Two, three Lexuses that included a limousine
owned by the Panlasigui’s waited at the hotel lobby for
brods and their respective wives who were interested in
joining a city tour. Notable among the ladies was Vee
Cardenas-Battad, whom I traced as a possible relative
with roots in Santa, Ilocos Sur. Among those who came
were Canada-based Brod Art de Vera, and Brod Rod Liggayu
and his pretty wife, Roweca. We were brought to a place
called Ballard, where we saw Seattle’s Marina, and not
too far from it, the must-see Chittenden Locks.
“The Hiram M.
Chittenden Locks is an engineering marvel that is
working flawlessly after almost a hundred years. The
locks sits in the middle of Salmon
Bay in Seattle, and
it is a set of complex system that regulates the
different water level between the bay and the lakes. By
doing so, it is able to keep the lakes at 20-22 feet
above sea level and at the same time, keeping the
saltwater from intruding into the lakes. The locks also
serve as a maritime gateway to Seattle and all the
commercial development that lies West of Salmon Bay.” (Wikipedia)
Our last stop was Kerry Park, acknowledged as the best
place to view Seattle’s skyline.
The tour group went back to the hotel and was pleasantly
greeted by someone whom I had always wanted to meet in
person – US Ret. Col. Dr. Joel Sim, MD. In my view, Brod
Joel presided over our dying Brod Ronnie Dimaano. His
beautifully written account could be seen at our website
in the "In Memoriam" section. It was an equally
delightful time to see UPLB’s great couple Brod Don and
Sis Marie Ganchorre again, with whom we had major
updates the night before, as they came early for the
grand affair.
Then it was time for the Grand Event. More than a
hundred Brods and ladies gathered to register at the
Grand Ballroom entrance.
Brod Dr. Fred Aquino DVM, one of the most accomplished
Filipino veterinarians in the US and an highly
celebrated community leader in Sacramento County and
vicinity, was guest speaker. His speech revolved around
the Five Betan Priorities: God, Country, Family,
University and Fraternity. This was a good reminder for
all of us Betans to set our priorities straight, and it
was also a nice message for all others inside the hall
especially those who are new to the Betan ways. In his
discussion of “university”, he mentioned about our
higher obligation to protect and support the academic
institution that brought us up to where we are and made
us succeed in this part of the world. Applauses marked
Nong Fred’s speech, but I recall that his most applauded
line was this: “I am honored to be the guest speaker of
the Northwest Chapter, a shining example of Betan
excellence.”
Nong Fred was also
assigned to induct the Chapter’s Grand Princep and
Officers of 2015-2017. An award was likewise given to
him, as did my tocayo Willy Salanga and Cosme Santiago
for their multiple services to the Northwest Chapter.
Humility, sense of service, courage to respond to
another 2 years of challenge, and lots of gratitude to
the elders, the ladies and members punctuated the speech
of second-termer Grand Princep Nick Panlasigui. He is
dutifully serving the abbreviated term of deceased Brod
Ronnie Dimaano. He sincerely talked about how much
support he was getting from the elders, a fact that was
quite visible as the ceremonies proceeded.
There will be less text from hereon and more pictures,
as they will speak for themselves. Below are a few more
highlights:
A short video showing the hospital-bed induction of Brod
Ronnie and his valedictory to all Betans added solemnity
to the occasion. This would later be followed by awards
given to two Betan widows of the Chapter – Marlene
Dimaano and Angie Taggueg.
The mysterious, somewhat eerie yet so solemn sound of
the bagpiper as he marched across the dimly-lit ballroom
so beautifully spoke to us in a way that is difficult to
describe. His presence was much more than an icing to
the occasion. It was a key to every major turn in the
program.
Just to inject a bit of humor to this rather serious
article, it appears that the Northwest Chapter truly got
their money's worth with Nong Fred. He was also the
Chief D.I. of the Night.
To cap the solemnity of the occasion, here are “Parting
Words” by Brod Joel C. Sim, MD:
The clock in
the wall is ticking. The day has ended. The sun has set
over the horizon, marking the beginning of dusk. The
weekend of this glorious reunion is coming to an end.
The time for fun and fellowship will soon be over.
We hope that the experience of the warm and radiant love
and harmony that each of us had felt here, you will
bring back with you and share this fellowship to all
members of your respective Chapters.
Let us defy all dissension, petty quarrels, silly
animosities, disruptive behavior and ego seeking
ambitions and bury these counterproductive attitudes
deep under the principles of the Beta Sigma Credo and
silence them with the words of our Betan hymn.
Each of us pray that our Beta Sigma brotherhood, hereon
and into future generations, that we will endure and
preserve our noble cause, and be bound to each other in
deep-seated brotherhood.
May our Beta Sigma stand tall, steadfast and secure as
to hurdle the rude assaults of time, the petty
ambitions, envy and greed of some ruffians and puerile
personalities within our midst.
May love and friendship reign, peace and harmony
prevail, whenever and wherever brother Betans meet.
Last, but not least, we pray that our God nourish the
spirit and strengthen the chain of love and respect
among brother Betans and preserve the noble order among
of our young Filipino scholars and gentlemen, that this
precious bond may endure forever.
Long live the Beta Sigma!
JOEL C. SIM, MD