25th Anniversary of the Beta Sigma Fraternity Alumni, Canada Inc.
August 13 – 16, 2015
Westin Bristol Place, Toronto, Canada

by Roy Palacol, SBC'79

 

 

 

[Photos by James Castañeda, Mer Quimson, Vivo Chua, Willie Vergara]

 

The Beta Sigma Fraternity Alumni, Canada Inc. achieved a significant milestone in celebrating its 25th anniversary in Canada by holding the Chapter’s 12th biennial Grand Fraternity Reunion and Induction ball at the Westin Bristol Place, Toronto, Canada last Augusta 13-16, 2015. It also hosted the 2015 Convention of the Federation of Beta Sigma Fraternity Chapters in North America.

In an evening of milestones, it was also the 50th batch anniversary of a outstanding batch of fraternity brothers from University of the Philippines (Diliman) , the 1965 “Black Saints” to which GP Brod James ‘Bogs’ Cabanatan was one of its stalwarts.

The celebration was graced by fraternity brothers, spouses and families not only from the different alumni chapters in North America, but more notably by a distinguished group of golfer-brods from the Philippines, headed by Brod Rolly Reyes, the guest speaker of the gala night.

A late afternoon barbeque was hosted by Brod Roland Cunanan (SBC’69) prior to the four day event. Amidst the warmth of a bonfire, the nippy breeze from a nearby lake and the unending comedic anecdotes from Ka Roland himself, the evening served as a harbinger of candid camaraderie and warm fellowship in store for the rest of the weekend celebrations.

The festivity officially started with the GPs’ night on the Thursday of Aug. 3rd. The GPs’ night is an evening sponsored by the Past and current Grand Princeps of the chapter traditionally held to welcome a few of the early arrival guests. Over the years the number of brods and guest arriving early prior to the event proper has steadily grown to establish the fraternity celebration into a four day event.

A band of Canuck brothers provided the musical ambiance to the epicurean and bacchanalian proportions of food, wine and drinks served to one’s gusto. While the traditional Chinese-Filipino dishes were the staple for the evening, the ‘pinapa-itan , kilawin ken kaldereta nga kalding ‘ prepared as near to an Ilocano flavour as possible and still edible for the wives and the few adventurous teen-kids to enjoy, were the hit and the ‘heat’ of the night. The question on which region owns the best recipe for a ‘kalding’ was settled without doubt that evening, as everyone had more than their double shares of the kambingan trifecta – Ilocano style.

The reveling amidst the renewal of fraternal bonds, stirred by unending reminiscences of juvenile days of yore and stimulated by loads of spirited drinks saw most of the Brods calling it a day only after the wee hours of dawn.

 


The Friday morning saw a bus load of golfer brods brave the dark clouds and the threatening August rains for an early round of golf at the Lion Head golf course. While a scattering of rain showers punctuated the front nine, nothing could dampen the avid golfers of their game as they attacked the back nine with the enthusiasm of a championship game, holding pars and earning birdies toward more respectable scores. Neither could the grey overcast temper the feeling of kinship and unending ribbing the golfer brods shared in pursuit of the perfect shot. More of personal golf experiences and Betan stories of years gone by found its way in the club house as the brods settled for a few brewskies while waiting for the organizer, Brod JoMa Azarraga (UP’57) to finish his round.

Several of the Canuck brods were assigned the different tasks of hosts, tour-guides and drivers to the visiting brods and their families in a tour of the city, most of whom requested a common destination – Toronto’s Chinatown where lanzones, rambutan, atis, even durian and other fresh tropical fruits can be found in abundance. Others preferred to be driven to Niagara Falls and around the wineries of Naigara-by-the Lake for a taste of the famous ice-wines of Ontario.

 

  

 

 

 


One could say that the Hospitality Night on Friday was a repetition of the previous GPs’ night revelry except for the fact that there were more of everything that Friday … more brods, sis and families from different chapters… more food, wine and spirited drinks served… more reminiscing and amusing anecdotes shared… more group pictures taken… more music from the band of brothers and karaoke-like singing from whomever had the chutzpah to belt a song or two ( or more ) …and most specially, who can forget the traditional ‘Bible Study @ Toronto’, which had etched an indelible memory on a few new inductees in the past. Only the initiated can speak articulately to this time-honored Canuck experience.

 

 

 

 


It was a given that the spirited drinks flowed with abandon again that night, but it was the diminishing rate of consumption by the brods that was very surprising. Gone were the harried gulping and guzzling swigs of downing beer and liquor, replaced by the genteel and suave sipping of red wine, whiskey, vodka and even beer. Claims of abstinence, healthy living and moderated life-style were the common excuses. But the truth of the matter is, the brods have simply piled up years and are slowing down in this domain of Betan tradition… the jug-a-lug. Clearly the customary abandoned imbibing in a jug-a-lug is being re-defined by the baby boomers.

 

 


The formalities of the Gala night on Saturday were the highlight of the Grand Fraternity Ball. While it showcased the brods in their sartorial best in colorful barongs and formal suits, they were easily upstaged by the ladies in their most dazzling evening wears.

The valedictory message of outgoing GP Brod Winston Cadhit (WUP’81) was a heartwarming and sincere acknowledgment to the Canuck brods and the Betan wives for their unwavering support during his term. The seemingly extemporaneous acceptance speech of GP James ‘Bogs’ Cabanatan displayed his ease and fluidity in shifting from English to Pilipino and a smidgen of Ilocano, while outlining his plans and platform of governance as the GP of Canada. He further captivated everyone’s attention with his walk-about around the tables, which brought the whole ballroom to a stirring anticipation. Only to find out later that he forgot where he placed a plaque which he was supposed to give to the outgoing GP, as tradition dictates.
 

"The Man of the Hour" - GP Bogs Cabanatan

 

The inspiring speech on unity and the uniqueness of the Beta Sigma Fraternity delivered by the guest speaker, Brod Rolly Reyes resonated well with all the brods from diverse resident chapters. It was a most fitting preface to the solemn Reaffirmation Rites that followed.
 

  

The Guest Speaker - Rolly Reyes


In all Canuck Fraternity Balls, the Betan Wives are not to be denied their time in the dance floor, thus the band played to the sounds of rhumba, cha-cha, disco, pop and whatever beat requested of them until the later part of midnight. The DJ created an equally frenetic following of line-dancers to the tunes of Macarena, YMCA, conga line and other 80’s disco music.

 

  

 

  

 

 

 

 

 

25 years of Beta Sigma Brotherhood in Canada is not anywhere comparable to 50 years, but to all of us who have been involved in ensuring that the Canada Chapter continues to grow progressively with time, we feel we have achieved much and have been doing the right things for the right reasons. We have not doubted our abilities to celebrate our accomplishments and successes, but we all realize that the bests of the Canada Chapter still lie ahead, as we continue to commit ourselves to the tenets and principles that make us Beta Sigmans… to the ideals that make us better men.

See you all in Toronto in 2017…

 

 

 

                                                      Toronto Reunion and Frat Ball

                                                                            by Boyet Fernandez, UPD'69

 

                                                                                 [Photos by Willie Vergara]

 

 

For us coming from Pinas our travel plans began when Canada GP (Boss Chief Manager Master Dios) Bogan invited us to his inaugural ball when we at the Engie De Gracia ’66 (Makati) Chapter hosted a bienvenida when he visited last February. Beloved Rolly Reyes right away said he would go to Toronto. I said I would too if my schedule would permit.

 

Bogs reiterated his invitation at the annual Panzer Batch anniversary in March (actually a joint celebration of all 3 Diliman 69 batches),  one of the more well attended parties of our batch which included Rolly Balingit from SoCal and Sher Gacho from Bacolod. Lakan Fonacier and Rolly Balingit said they too would attend. Ed Abon initially said yes (but work got in the way and he was a no show) while everyone was encouraging Torch Manalang to go as well (still terrified about a visa interview).

 

As the date of the ball came closer, only three of us would go: Beloved Rolly, Lakan and me.

 

And then I thought of Brod Julio Templonuevo from UST. He’s a client in the engineering contracting business who I have known for at least 25 years since we played tennis. He often goes on business trips abroad and I told him to take a break from his stressful business and to come with us to visit the brods in Toronto and meet others he has not seen for years. I told him it would be fun. And so he came along.

 

And then there were four of us from Pinas to attend Bogs’ inaugural ball: Julio UST, Lakan and I UP Diliman; we took the PAL flight together. Rolly Beloved took the Cathay flight.

 

We arrived on the night of August 12th and checked in at the Westin hotel. It was late and the hotel restaurant was closed but we were hungry and went to the grill place next door. We were joined by 2 brods who recognized Julio at the hotel lobby – Panggoy from San Sebastian and  Henry Josue from San Beda. Over beer and pulutan,  we immediately bonded as brothers should. We must have been loud that Ike Araneta came over to our table.  He and his gracious wife, Tanya, had just finished dinner. Tanya called it a night and left for the hotel while Ike hang out with us.

 

 

 

 

  

 

 

 

 

Three Betans from UP and 3 from UBelt meeting for the first time having beer. We all felt at ease with each other and stayed until the place closed around midnight. I felt that we “climbed” the “barrier of region and prejudice” and “created a feeling of kinship” bound by the mythical glue called Beta Sigma. Actually, we broke down the barrier of discrimination between Brods from UP and the other chapters. That first encounter would set the mood for the rest of the 3 day event, one Beta Sigma, Betans without borders.

 

The following day Ike Araneta was kind enough to take Julio and me in their rental to Niagara Falls.  At the hotel lobby, we met a brod from CLSU now residing in San Diego who told us he and his wife were also going to Niagara they were waiting for a sis who would take them. We all would meet again at the Falls and were together in the boat that went near the Falls and had lunch together. We all had an amazing time. We have pics taken by Ike to show.

 

Actually, I went to the Niagara Falls twice – the second was with Kabatch Rolly B with another brod from the other NorCal chapter (I know he’s from San Beda too but I’m blinking on his name or was it Ed?) and our tour guide was Rolly Cunanan of San Beda, an interesting guy with a colorful life story, neighborhood buddy of Kabatch Boy Jaurigue, married with children to a Spaniard whom he met in London and has settled down in Toronto. After the obligatory tour to see the Falls, he took us to have a picnic in the charming town of Niagara on the Lake with wine and food leftover from the party the night before which was a great idea until he discovered that the wine was cork screw and he didn’t have one. He made up for it by taking us for a wine tour of Niagara, bought a few and drank a bottle at his home and met his two lovely daughters and grandkid. The two Rollies hit it off and never stopped exchanging stories. It was amazing how one would finish the sentence of the other and this went on and on.

 

During the GP’s night and Welcome night,  the hall was filled with Betans from different colleges coming from different chapters in North America, their spouses, Sigma Betans. Booze flowed, food galore served all night. Everybody had a good time. Met brods I’ve not seen for a long time. As if we relived the life at the Tambayan with  “The Masters” – Noli Nolasco, Bart Gacad, Gilbert Dulay, Elmor Villanueva,  Ding Cavestany, Fred Young, Tatang Vergara, Josue Castillo, Amang Rivera, Judge Rey; and the “Amuyongs” - Babes Galoso, Togi, Edwin Encomienda, , Bernie Bacosa, Danny Vizmanos, Vale, Edsel Arceo. Reacquainted with succeeding generation brods like Nilo Espino who was part of the Makati Chapter before he moved to Toronto, Jicki Evangelista. Glad to see LB brods Ted Quijano Art De Vera. And of course, the brods from the other chapters who were providing music and manning the bar and the food and everything else to make sure that we were having a real good time.

 

 

 

 

 

Borderless camaraderie continued at the golf course. Our flight included Lakan, Dan Vizmanos and Jun Castro from New York (I think he is Beta Sigma NU). Jun and I have common friends from the forwarding industry. It was raining, the course was nice but wet and unfamiliar. Rolly B played his usual A game scoring in single digits over par.

 

The event was capped by a more formal induction ceremony of GP Bogs and the inspiring speech of Guest of Honor, Rolly Beloved. Brods were in their fine suits or elegant barong. And Bart Gacad danced the night away, never mind the arthritis.

 

 

 

 

Toronto exceeded our expectations. We experienced a yet uncommon fraternity activity among brods who welcomed everyone with no care about your origins or chapter. All Betans are equal but some chapters are separate. For how long would this equal but separate situation continue?

 

Toronto has set a new bar by which similar fraternity activities in the future will have to match, at least if not surpass.


 

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FORTY SEVEN (47) UP BRODS CONVERGED IN TORONTO.
IT'S UNBELIEVABLY TRUE! SEE COMPLETE LIST BELOW.

 

 

 

 



The Locals
Bogs Cabanatan
Mario Cruz
Bart Gacad
Jicky Evangelista
Art de Vera
Nilo Anthony Espino
Erick Miranda
Jomari Azarraga
Danny Vizmanos
Anthony Buyco
Rico Kison
William Valdez
Poldo Pascua
Ferns Silverio

From Philippines
Rolly Reyes
Lakan Fonacier
Boyet Fernandez

From Northern California
Ike Araneta
Ding Cavestany
Johnny Regadio
Tatang Vergara

From Southern California
Edsel Arceo
Ed Rivera
Jun Valenzuela
Roy Antonio
Rolly Balingit
Rod Reyes
Elmor Villanueva
Gilbert Dulay

From Alberta/Saskatchewan, Canada
Noli Nolasco
Fred Young

From Midwest USA  
Pamboy Castillo
Judge Rey
Ron Arceo
Olrac Malabanan
Rene Gallardo (Texas)
Edwin Encomienda (Texas)
Ysmael Narcelles (Texas)
Bernie Bacosa (Texas)

From New York
James Madduma
James Castaneda
Babes Galoso
Ted Quijano

From Eastern USA
Del Tumibay
Togi Igot

Nick Galvez

Ed Quisumbing

 

 

 

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